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antonia

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love story

where it all began

We’d always kind of known each other—nothing dramatic, just one of those “Oh, yeah, I know them” kind of situations. For a while, that’s all it was. A friendly wave here, a quick chat there, but nothing that made you think, “Hey? This person might change my life someday”.

Then, somehow, we ended up spending more time together. Maybe it was a random conversation that lasted longer than it should have or just realising you liked being around each other. Before we knew it, we were friends—the kind of friends who could turn to one another in happiness and hardship.

At some point, things shifted. Maybe it was a joke that landed just a little too perfectly, or the way we started remembering the little details about one another. Suddenly, we found ourselves wondering why we cared so much about what each other thought.

It wasn’t some big, dramatic moment. It was just… easy. Friendship slowly turned into something more, and neither of us fought it because it just felt right.

Dating was a whirlwind. One year of adventures, laughs, figuring each other out and our puppy named Tank. But amidst all the excitement, Matthew knew something deeply important: And when the time came to propose, he didn’t just make it special—he made it unforgettable, choosing the place closest to her heart, Madeira, as the backdrop for one of the biggest moments of their life. Every step brought us closer to the life we’ve always dreamed of - together.

Here we are, laughing at how it all started, knowing that somewhere along the way, the person you casually knew became the person you can’t imagine life without.

Now, we’re thrilled to take this next step in celebrating the beginning of our forever with you, our adored friends and family. Thank you for being part of our story - it wouldn’t be the same without you.

Love
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TROUDAG

wedding day

celebrate love with us

Together with their families,
Antonia Melim and Matthew Van Heerden 
invite you to their wedding day

saturday,
29 march 2025

Guests to arrive at 13h30  |  Ceremony to start at 14h00

the vows

St Agnes Catholic Church
13 Dublin Street, Woodstock, Cape Town, 7925
Directions

the venue

Reception to follow
(Please allow for an hour drive to the reception venue)
Quoin Rock Manor House
Knorhoek Road, Stellenbosch, 7600
Directions

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Dress code

dress code

the wedding attire

We request that our guests wear formal Black Tie wedding attire.
Ladies - Red carpet dress in all black.
Gentlemen - Tuxedo or black formal suit.

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“To make the journey and not fall deeply in love, well, you haven’t lived a life at all. But you have to try, cause if you haven’t tried, you haven’t lived.”

- William Parish

how things

are going to go down

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Ceremony

14h00

Cocktail Hour

16h15

Reception

18h30

Venue Closure

till late

Timeline
Travel

stay+travel

weekend accommodation

Delaire Graff Estate
Knorhoek Wine Estate
Oude Werf Hotel
Coopmanhuijs Boutique Hotel & Spa
River Manor Boutique Hotel
Stellenbosch Hotel
L'Avenir Country Lodge
Deux Frères Luxury Villas
Ladybird Vineyards/Lodge
Weltevreden Estate Bed And Breakfast

*Please take note that we will be offering a shuttle service to bring guests back and forth from the main venue parking lot to the Manor House.

We recommend pre booking your Ubers should you require one on the evening.

things to do

weekend activities

Picnic and wine Tasting at Warwick Wine Estate
Lunch at Baylonstoren
Babylonstoren Garden Walk
Segway Vineyard Tours at Spier Wine Farm
Delaire Graff Wine Tasting and Lunch
Wine Tasting at Waterford Wine Estate
Golf at Hazendal Wine Estate
Lunch at Tokara Wine Estate

Activities

kindly respond

we can’t wait to see you

Kindly RSVP before or on 14 February 2025.
We look forward to celebrating our love with you!

RSVP
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